Showing posts with label Gender. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gender. Show all posts

January 09, 2013

Personhood of a woman is a western civilisational gift

Mark: “You might also realize certain events are predestined and you can’t fight against them.”
Sri Aurobindo himself would be a good example. He was shown in visions during 1908 that India would become independent. As a result, he stopped exerting himself on the matter.
Somewhere Sri Aurobindo or the Mother have said that as long as the future is being formed in the higher worlds, one can influence and change it, but once these potentialities descend into the subtle-physical, they cannot be altered. 

On the day India attained freedom, a voice spoke to the nation. The voice of the first Indian leader who demanded complete independence from British rule.

The Supramental Action (Yoga and Human Evolution) from At the Feet of The Mother Tuesday, 8th January 2013 at Hall of Harmony, Sri Aurobindo Ashram, Pondicherry, India.
We have entered an accelerated mode of evolution. It is at once individual and collective. As a part of this process we see certain tendencies that have long remained buried or else accepted as normal and natural are being raised up only to be exhausted or changed. The mind of the race that long accepted certain things is now disgusted with them and seeks to reject them completely. But what is the way and the process? Yoga is not about miracles but a steady climb towards new conquests, slow discovery of new possibilities, a victory over enduring difficulties and obstinate resistances.

Sri Aurobindo’s epic Savitri running into about twenty-four thousand lines is not only a literary masterpiece; it is the supreme revelation of his vision, and a record of his yogic and spiritual attainments. It proclaims the future of man and prepares the necessary ground for the powers of the spirit to enter into his life. It speaks, for instance, about the essential sound becoming the material sound, and it is that which can give rise to new expression. It is the sound that can bring to us the knowledge-power of the spirit. These are the possibilities, and these have been most forcefully and luminously brought out by the Mother. It is that gift of hers which we value most, that which can form a constant source of inspiration, that we may grow more and more fully in it. Through it we can reach the vast realms of delight, brihat saubhagam, in the accomplishment of our life and our soul.
Assignation with the Night from Savitri there is the deep existential issue, and it cannot be wished away. One has to meet the Soul of the Night, and one has to talk to it, soul-to-soul. Sri Aurobindo becomes the bold pilgrim of the Night, the dark Soul, and fixes an assignment to meet her, to colloque with her; he indeed makes purposeful advances to woo her. This was on 26 July 1938 when important things were happening, and when were also seen dangerous signs of a thick shadow engulfing the world. He revisits her in 1944, on 18 August, when matters had taken a positive upward turn.  

Sri Aurobindo has identified a persistent principle of the manifestation that becomes ever more apparent as we ascend the scale of consciousness, and that is the principle of “uniqueness” which is intimately bound up with the necessity of rebirth. It is in the end, the uniqueness of the individual that presents the hidden thread of development that cannot be accomplished through one lifetime. We see the start of the differentiation process as the unity of the life force begins to develop into different species of plant and animal life, what we might consider to be the development of a group consciousness that manifests characteristics that are unique compared to other species. Eventually, however, we see the further development, particularly as the principle of Mind takes hold, of unique individuals within the group who begin to develop and express characteristics that make that individual different from the rest of the common group.

H. Gintis, Samuel Bowles, Robert Boyd, and Ernst Fehr, editors 2005. “Moral Sentiments and Material Interests: the foundations of coopertion in economic life”, MIT.
Living things can go on for billions of years.  Natural selection works throughout these long time periods.  Species can separate (that’s why we are here) and continue alongside each other, others die out, even without competing, and some out-compete in limited space.  Innovation removes firms from old technologies either directly or indirectly.  Within the lifetimes of individuals these changes may have no effect upon them.
In short, I am not convinced by biological analogies, though I am convinced by Darwinian science.  When people who are convinced by biological analogies demonstrate that they understand Adam Smith’s moral philosophy and his use of the IH metaphor, I shall take more note of them. 

The problem is that so many women men now encounter in the public spaces of India's cities and towns — to which both sexes have migrated in large numbers in the last few decades — such as those who have come into the cities to work or study, do not easily fit into the traditional mental categories of what constitutes a woman's personhood. In their dress or deportment, these women cannot be accommodated to the relational blueprint of the woman that the men have carried in their minds since childhood…
The recognition of indivi-duality constituting the personhood of a woman is a western civilisational gift which makes us acknowledge that the Indian woman is not only a person when she is relational but also, and in our context, especially when she is an individual. But we also need to recognise that the western sexual excesses of television channels, video films and internet sites which we are in the process of aping are perversions of individualism, not its essence. The writer is a psychoanalyst and novelist.

October 02, 2012

Marriage is not like a public transport system

Tweet 1h - MediaCrooks @mediacrooks Here are real remarks by Sriprakash Jaiswal (Hindi) clear as crystal... श्रीप्रकाश का भद्दा बयानऔरत पुरानी होने पर मजा कम हो जाता है Updated: Tuesday, October 2, 2012, Posted by: Ajay कानपुर। "नई नई जीत और नई नई पत्नी का जश् सब मनाते हैं। जैसे जैसे समय बीतेगाजीत पुरानी होती जाती हैजैसे जैसे समय बीतता है पत्नी पुरानी होती जाती हैवो मजा नहीं रहता है।"
Shriprakash Jaiswal slammed for sexist comment Deccan Herald- Lucknow, Oct 2, 2012, (IANS): Women groups reacted strongly Tuesday to union Coal Minister Shriprakash Jaiswal's comment that "once a wife gets old, she loses her charm" ...  Jaiswal, also a Congress Lok Sabha member, made the unsavoury comment at a poetry meet at K.K. Girls College in Kidwai Nagar in Kanpur Sunday night… Referring to the T20 match between India and Pakistan that India won, Jaiswal had said: "Fresh victory and a fresh marriage is something different." He went on to say that as a marriage grows old with time, it loses its charm as the wife also gets old.

Obey wife and be happy, reiterates Supreme Court judge ... 22 May 2009 – New Delhi, May 22 (IANS) An irrepressible Justice Markandey Katju of the Supreme Court, known for his lighthearted remarks, Friday ended up reiterating himself when he said obeying one’s wife was the way to a happy life!
Obey your wife and rule the world: Supreme Court ...‎ - 20 May 2009 New Delhi, May 19 (IANS) The Supreme Court has a recipe for a successful marriage, more so for men: Obey your wife and rule the world!
“Bibi joh boltee hai woh sunno (Listen to whatever your wife says). We all listen,” a vacation bench of Justice Markandeya Katju and Justice Deepak Verma observed while hearing a lawsuit by Indian Air Force officer Deepak Kumar, who had complained that his estranged wife Manisha had ruined him and his family by implicating them in false criminal cases including sodomy.
“Hum sab bhuktbhogi hai (We all have undergone that experience),” the bench observed. “If your wife wants you to see this side, see this side. If she wants you to see the other side, do obey her,” said Katju, adding: “One who obeys his wife rules the world.”

Why Justice Bhaktavatsala's homilies are no better than ... - Firstpost 5 Sep 2012 – Justice Bhaktavatsala, a Karnataka High Court judge, has just spoken aloud what Indian television feeds the country slyly everyday… Bhaktavatsala in the past couple of days has managed to amuse, outrage and shock people with his courtroom oratory. An example:
“Women suffer in all marriages. You are married with two children, and know what it means to suffer as a woman. Yesterday, there was a techie couple who reconciled for the sake of their child. Your husband is doing good business, he will take care of you.” 
If that wasn’t enough fodder for ridicule, one has to hear what he has to say about unmarried lawyers arguing marriage-related cases.
“Family matters should be argued only by married people, not spinsters. You should only watch. Bachelors and spinsters watching family court proceedings will start thinking if there is any need to marry at all. Marriage is not like a public transport system. You better get married and you will get very good experience to argue such cases,” he advised her.

Sibal slams Wardha VC for calling women writers 'prostitutes ... 2 Aug 2010 – NEW DELHI: But Rai, who was an IPS officer, was unperturbed and felt it was no more than literary discussion. Speaking from Wardha, he said, "The word chhinal does not mean prostitute. Even Premchand has used it more than a hundred times." According to him, "I only said for many women writers, discourse on women has become discourse of the body. I said women should include others like tribals and dalits to make their battle more effective."
VC Rai apologizes for sexist remark - Times Of India 4 Aug 2010 – NEW DELHI: Vibhuti Narayan Rai, vice-chancellor, Mahatma Gandhi Antarashtriya Hindi Vishwavidyalaya, Wardha, … However, on Sunday, the same Rai had justified the use of the term `chhinal' (loose character) for women writers. He had said even Munshi Premchand, the foremost Hindi writer, had used the word`chhinal' more than a hundred times. In his interview, he had said there was a competition among women writers to prove who was a bigger loose character. Later, Rai said he was merely talking about the need for change in women's discourse. Asked about possible action by HRD ministry, he had said his comments were as a writer.